Love your neighbor as yourself? do you even know your neighbor? do you even want to?

Do you come to this forum and preach without even loving first? Or is it preach now and love later? I have really started to question my motives in who what when and where preaching occurs. I hope this question spawns self evaluation. I come here every day and ask and answer but I will be damned if there is even one person on the street out in the world on any given day saying anything about God or Jesus. that is my rant and its no where near as serious as it reads.